Jill Bolte Taylor is a brain scientist and the renowned author of A Stroke of Insight, which describes her experience and insights from stroke she suffered at age 37. Taylor gained great wisdom from her stroke, and one of those “strokes of insight” is that inner peace is just a thought away.
It’s simple, really, but hugely complicated, right? Just a thought away? And why would you want to feel inner peace anyhow? All you want to do is write, for goodness sake.
I believe that good writing comes from a creative charge deep inside and from an urgency to share your story or stories with others. It can also come from a desire to explore your experience with and for yourself through writing. After that initial creative charge passes, further writing on the same subject or piece can require more left brain qualities: discipline and determination, maybe a writing schedule or calendared date with yourself.
Inner peace fits in right here. Inner peace allows you to sit still, and writing takes that kind of stillness. Inner peace is comfortable with solitude, and memoir writing likes a tranquil environment where you can access the privacy of the mind where memory and imagination naturally interweave.
But how do you feel inner peace while you’re writing about something that is emotionally distressing? A lot of my memoir students tell me they get restless when they’re writing, that they can’t stay at the computer long enough to get anything finished.
Memoir writing takes being courageous and being willing to be vulnerable. That’s where good, honest writing can happen. It’s how you not only get to write but get to finish what you write. Vow to discover what is there when you let yourself be vulnerable, to see and be seen even when there’s no guarantee of how it will turn out.
Brene Brown, researcher and professor at the University of Houston, speaks eloquently on the power of vulnerability. She believes that what makes you vulnerable makes you beautiful. I’d like to translate that for the writer: What makes you vulnerable makes you real, and what makes you real makes you beautiful. It means you say what needs to be said, you write from the heart. Write on, say what needs to be said, find that place of inner peace to write from. It’s only a thought away.
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