Daily Archives: February 2, 2010

5.1 Collaboration: How to Make It Work


by Janet Riehl & Stephanie Farrow

Read a 2-part conversation between Janet and Stephanie as they reflect on 37 years of collaboration. These are the third and fourth posts in this blog-of-the-month series.


Part 4


Collaboration: How to Make It Work

Some people do. Some people don’t.
Collaborate. It can land you on your face or make your life and work more fun
and productive. For our keynote post on collaboration we’ve identified eight
tips to make it work.

This Telling Her Stories
post dovetails with Riehlife's blog-of-the-month theme. In February my blog-magazine features two
interviews by two pairs of seasoned collaborators.

You know the first pair, Kendra Bonnett and Matilda Butler, either from their columns here or from their richly resourceful Women's Memoirs site.  On Telling Her Stories Kendra's column is "Getting Read," and Matilda's column is "Opening Salvos."

Kendra and Matilda identified five tips from their 30-year collaboration as business partners,
authors, and friends. Their helpful interview runs in two parts on Riehlife. In
Part 1 they tell how they met and began working together. In Part 2
they identify and discuss their five tips.

The second two-part interview features
my collaborator Stephanie Farrow and myself as we reflect on our 37 years of
working together designing workshops, writing, and laughing.

Looking over Kendra and Matilda’s five
tips, Stephanie and I found we agreed with all of their points and added a few
of our own. Here’s the list we came up with to make collaboration work.

#1 Choose a partner you know, like, and
share interests and experience with.

#2  Build trust and truthfulness.

#3 Check your ego at the door. Honor the
other person’s ideas and share the credit.

#4  Know your collaborator’s
work ethic, sense of purpose, discipline, and desire for quality work.

#5  Know how to balance
strengths and skills. Divide the work load accordingly.

#6  Know and honor

#7 Deepen trust, truthfulness, and ways to resolve conflict.

 #8 Stick to it and have fun!

Our next post in the collaboration
series on Telling Her Stories focuses on trust. Our last post will further
deepen the theme of collaboration.


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